About me

Hi! My name is Alexandra and I live in Southern California.

I created this space with the hope of supporting and empowering anybody who wants something more. Anybody who wants to live a better life, be happy, look and feel good, overcome adversities and find success.

I was the daughter of a single mother living in Eastern Europe and we didn’t have much of anything back then. I’ve seen communism, food lines and revolutions. But I’ve always dreamt about making a better life for my family and myself.

At 16 I became a music “pop star” :) in my native Romania, but I gave up that glitz and glam, to come to America. I turned 18 in August 2002 and in September I had landed in the US.

I moved here by myself and it hasn’t always been easy. In my life there have been tons of ups, and a whole lot of downs, which you can learn more about in the video below if you want. I’ve been a business owner, an employee and unemployed. I’ve been rich and I’ve been bankrupt. Married and divorced. I’ve been chronically insecure, plagued by fear and drowning in guilt. And all this by the time I was 25. Many people say that I’ve gone through more sh*t than most people go through in a lifetime.

I’ve had regrets and I’ve gone through depression. I’ve had suicidal thoughts and a couple of failed attempts. There was a point in time however, when I realized I didn’t want to go. I simply wanted to be happy. And in my attempt to find that happiness, I’ve read books, listened to CDs, watched videos and attended seminars.

Sadly, I’ve seen too many people in this “self help” space selling dreams and giving crappy, superficial advice like “find your happiness by letting go of your fears”. Well isn’t that nice? BUT HOW do I find happiness and HOW do I let go of fears?

If growth were that simple as this statement, everybody would be doing it. Since I couldn’t find the kind of DETAILED, step-by-step advice to help myself in my time of need, I chose to develop my own. And that’s how this blog and video series came about.

I’ve seen too many people selling dreams and giving crappy, superficial advice like “find your happiness by letting go of your fears”. Well isn’t that nice? BUT HOW do I find happiness and HOW do I let go of fears?

If growth were that simple as this statement, everybody would be doing it. Since I couldn’t find the kind of DETAILED, step-by-step advice to help myself in my time of need, I chose to develop my own. And that’s how the idea of this blog and video series started.

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I’ve seen too many people selling dreams and giving crappy, superficial advice like “find your happiness by letting go of your fears”. Well isn’t that nice? BUT HOW do I find happiness and HOW do I let go of fears?

If growth were that simple as this statement, everybody would be doing it. Since I couldn’t find the kind of DETAILED, step-by-step advice to help myself in my time of need, I chose to develop my own. And that’s how the idea of this blog and video series started.

– See more at: http://alexandrapotora.com/subbie-exclusives/#sthash.qvmYvd3B.dpuf

Believe me, if I can go from bankrupt to building a successful business; from previous divorce and failed relationships to a happy marriage; from depression to a majority of happy days… you can definitely achieve that as well. I’m not smarter and I’m not better than you. I’ve simply dedicated an enormous amount of time to creating effective step-by-step techniques. And that’s what I’m sharing with you here. I’m giving you the opportunity to take a shortcut by not having to spend all the time I did, hit every wall and figure these things out for yourself.

These are are the 4 categories I make videos in every month:

1. PERSONAL GROWTH
Because nothing of substance can be accomplished if we’re weak on the inside, if we lack confidence, are satiated with fears, feeling judgment, jealousy and insecurity. I’ll share everything I know and talk about things like: How to deal with depression, how to face fears, let go of guilt and insecurities, how to gain more confidence, build self-esteem and MUCH more!

2. RELATIONSHIPS & SEX
I’ve been through enough relationships to get a very in-depth view of what works and what doesn’t. My Relationships & Sex advice is not unreasonable, but rather taking into consideration the busy life of the overwhelmed individual of today. We’ll talk about how to WOW a partner, how to deal with jealousy, what men want, how to practically spice up your sex life, dating ideas, advice for women, advice for men, and everything “relationships and sex”. It’s the same advice I follow, that I will share with you here, every month.

3. FASHION & BEAUTY
Because… books are still being judged by their covers. Here, we’ll talk about how to dress for your size, take an outfit from day to night, look like a million bucks on a Forever 21 budget, lifestyle choices, beauty tricks and products, weight loss, and more.

4. CAREER & MONEY
Over the past 14 years I’ve learned how to successfully make money, how to market myself, how to market a business and how to close sales. In this category we’ll talk about how to find a career you’ll love and be financially profitable, how to market yourself, how to build the most kick-ass resume, network and much more!

I want you to have a whole lot of everything! And I believe that by tackling these 4 major areas of our lives, we can successfully achieve that. You’ll find that my (free) content and videos are packed with more practical solutions than 10K seminars.

So please come join me, come join this community, and get all the EXCLUSIVES I won’t share anywhere else, by signing up for my email newsletter below! (no spamming).

Till next time, thank you for being in my life and allowing me to be in yours. Be kind to yourself and to all those around you!

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